I often meet women who have great qualities, women who, in my eyes, are amazing, but when I talk to them, they seem not to know it. They constantly allow abuse in their lives, which they do not receive because they do not know how to receive it, and they are used in their daily life as if that were normal.
Women are abused or offended by their children, partners, professional environment, and "friends." Unhappy, insecure, fearful, and hopeless women.
I have always believed in the value of the person. There are plenty of examples of good women and men in my life, and the world is full of good people. I never think that the solution is to stop believing, stop being good to others, or stop giving the best, kindness, generosity, or dedication. Instead, I keep alive and present the person's value because if this is respected, he wants more people in his life who also respect themselves. So that you can respect yourself, you need to be someone you love.
Women are devalued by others every time, and a low self-concept can allow a woman to believe that she is indeed worthless, good, unworthy, strong, and so on. We are constantly receiving a wrong message that turns love into something that loves is not, a message of false empowerment that, instead of helping us to heal and be stronger and more loving with ourselves, ends up leaving us worse than when we started.
A woman who loves herself and knows all the good in her will see that she should not be used in any way. She will focus on continuing to receive the good because that is also what she offers, and she will not feel less or negligible next to no one because it has been built with patience in the face of each success and each error. Every woman should always demand respect, and this should not surprise anyone.
A big mistake many women allow themselves to make is falling into comparison, which can take anyone away from self-respect and acceptance.
A woman may be better at one thing (or several things) than another, but she must know that no one is better than her at all things; She understands that all women are different and that, although, of course, she has weak points, these do not prevent her from loving herself. Love your virtues and work on your weaknesses without being disrespectful, but from love.
Women must know they do not have to compare themselves because every woman is different. We can admire each other because we are intelligent and need to feel safe in a meeting full of other stunning women. We must know how to see another beautiful woman and say: What a lovely lady! And they always feel enough for a job, enough for their challenges and other people regardless of their qualities.
The worst in you is not compared with the best of others, and it is not worth comparing your weaknesses with the apparent greatness of other people (in general, other women) who are still flawed or human.
Around every insecure woman who does not love herself, there will be someone who seems better, but then, and if this is your situation, think, Is she patient like me? Is she intelligent like me? Does she have a big heart like mine?
The problem is not the virtues of others but the lack of appreciation for one's advantages, qualities, and strengths; you must remember what makes you unique, and then you know again that you are a woman of high value.
As long as you have life, it is not too late to work on yourself, strengthen your personality and leave the fear of personal fulfillment. It's not too late to be safe in your skin. I assure you that loving your partner, your children, your friends, and your circle should never give them the power to attack your security because no one who loves you will want to see you down but the opposite.
It is essential that you can be happy with the woman you are. If you are dissatisfied, you have the power to find a way to become a more pleasant woman according to your expectations and criteria so that you can be more understanding, more compassionate, more respectful, and Help yourself to be a better person.
When you consider yourself a better person with a big heart, and good intentions, you will not only feel respect and admiration for yourself, but also, nobody will be able to use you again, take advantage of you, or make you doubt your value.
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